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Home > Healthy People > April 2004 

                                                                                       Spring 2004

Maybe a Baby: Pondering Parenthood?

Having a baby – sometimes just trying to get pregnant – can be one of the most nerve-wracking experiences in life. Is anyone ever ready for such a monumental and everlasting life change? There are ways to prepare, both physically and emotionally, for a baby, according to St. John’s OB/GYN Kent Burk, M.D., of St. John’s Clinic - OB/GYN – Smith-Glynn-Callaway. Burk teaches “Pondering Parenthood,” a class for couples who are thinking about starting a family.

“We started this class as part of St. John’s Women’s Services because we wanted to be able to provide information for couples, especially young couples, before they embark on parenthood. Having a baby can cause intense stress in a couple’s life. This class gives couples valuable information so they can avoid some of the conflicts and pitfalls of early parenthood,” Burk says.

“Pondering Parenthood” addresses many of the social and financial impacts a baby has on a relationship, as well as physical preparations to ensure a healthy pregnancy. Caring for your health before you become pregnant, called preconception care, will help identify factors that may put you and your baby at risk during pregnancy and allow time to treat any medical problems before you become pregnant.

Get your health in order ahead of time

“The discovery that folic acid decreases birth defects has had a big impact on people and encouraged them to take care of themselves medically before getting pregnant. Getting your health in order ahead of time, by quitting smoking, alcohol and drugs, as well as taking care of any medical problems, exercising and eating a healthy diet, is a smart preventive measure before pregnancy,” Burk says.

More men are involved in their partner’s pregnancies now than ever before. It’s important – and often more effective – to make lifestyle changes together.

“Traditional roles are no longer in play in a lot of relationships and many workplaces are a lot more accommodating for men to be able to come to doctors’ appointments with their wives. At least half of my patients’ husbands or partners come to their appointments with them. They’re always in the delivery room now; that’s just expected. It’s also much easier for one partner to exercise or quit smoking, drinking alcohol or eating junk food if the other partner is involved and making an effort in those areas too,” Burk says.

Choosing an OB/GYN

If you haven’t chosen an OB/GYN yet, now’s the time. St. John’s has OB/GYN clinics in Lebanon, Rolla, and in Springfield in the Fremont and National Avenue Medical Buildings near St. John’s Hospital, and Smith-Glynn-Callaway Medical Building. St. John’s Clinic – Lebanon – OB/GYN recently doubled its office space. St. John’s now offers OB/GYN services in Nixa at St. John’s Clinic – Nixa – Pediatrics – Family Practice – OB/GYN.
For a referral to a St. John’s OB/GYN, call 888-8888 or 1-800-909-TEAM, or ask your primary care physician.

A preconception counseling appointment with your physician is an important first step in preparing for pregnancy. Your OB/GYN will ask you for a detailed family medical history, reproductive history and medical history. He or she will help you identify any lifestyle factors that could affect your pregnancy, such as your home and workplace environments, weight, smoking, alcohol and drugs, exercise and diet habits. Any medical condition, such as diabetes or high blood pressure, should be well controlled before you become pregnant. Your OB/GYN will also most likely recommend you limit caffeine consumption and begin taking a prenatal vitamin that includes folic acid. Folic acid has been shown to decrease the risk of spine and brain defects, such as spina bifida. Your physician will also discuss genetic testing during your preconception appointment.

“Having access to information that could point to a genetic disease within a family is very important. I encourage couples to talk with their family members ahead of time to obtain that information before they come to their preconception appointment,” Burk says. “We also discuss genetic testing for common hereditary conditions, such as cystic fibrosis or sickle cell anemia and can perform these tests before pregnancy if the couple wishes.”

How long will it take to achieve pregnancy?

Only a third of known fertile couples will achieve pregnancy on a given cycle, Burk says, so it’s important not to get frustrated if you don’t become pregnant immediately. Most women with regular cycles ovulate between days 10 and 14 of their cycle (day 1 is the first day of the menstrual period), but this can vary significantly from woman to woman.

“Whether your cycle is regular is an important indicator of whether you are ovulating, which is necessary for pregnancy to occur. Ninety percent of couples will achieve pregnancy within a year of trying. If it’s been more than a year, then we can start looking for issues of infertility and that’s when you’d need to start charting your cycles,” Burk says.

Stress can also play a role in whether conception occurs. Fears about infertility may lead to tension with your partner and that can reduce your chances of pregnancy – after all, it’s hard to conceive a baby if one of you is sleeping on the couch.

New women's services at St. John's
  • St. John’s Teddy Bear Club Materials

    St. John’s Teddy Bear Club is a free club for pregnant women delivering at St. John’s hospitals. Members receive “A Baby on the Way!” a new book that includes a class schedule, coupons, instructions, newsletters and a pregnancy journal. Classes include an early pregnancy class, a basic childbirth preparation class, an expanded childbirth/Lamaze class, a smoking cessation program, and nutrition and weight management classes, including water aerobics. St. John’s also offers accelerated and refresher childbirth and Lamaze courses. Call 888-8888 or 1-800-909-TEAM or visit www.stjohns.com for a Teddy Bear Club class schedule.

Expanded Labor & Delivery Services in Lebanon
St. John’s Hospital – Lebanon recently expanded its labor and delivery services, adding four new state-of-the-art private suites.

 

 

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